Monday, October 22, 2012

AN AUTUMN MEMOIR

I am prejudice and I don't feel one ounce of shame.  The object of my affection is my home state of Virginia.  I think it is the most scenic of the fifty. You may disagree but that is okay .  There is enough beauty in this country for all to enjoy.

Recently we took a bus tour from Myrtle Beach to the Great Smokies, the Blue Ridge Mountains and Parkway, in to Virginia through the countryside of rolling hills bordered with trees of changing colors. It was a beautiful day in the foothills of the Blue Ridge. As we age our memories become hazy. But it took only a short time to bring back some of
those memories as we rounded one curve after another and saw wild life we never expected to see and breath taking views of golds, reds and yellows adorning the trees. Each area had its specialty--the valley views of towns appearing as if they were a child's building block display; the Blue Ridge took one's breath away., Mabry's Mill brought back memories of annual visits to buy molasses and corn meal. The gentle, rolling land of the Piedmont, dotted with grazing livestock, reminded those of us who had been to Scotland of that exciting terrain. We enjoyed a train ride in the dining car leaving from Bryson city.  It was quite relaxing and the mountain scenery was more than we had anticipated.

Woodrow Wilson was the first president on our trek of the area. We toured the museum, his boyhood home and had a special lunch in the Library. The softly falling rain did not dampen our spirits.  Staunton has a special aura as the travelers quickly felt.

Our history lessons continued at Monticello, the home designed by its owner Thomas Jefferson. I'm always surprised at his ingenuity and his innate ability to see into the future of this nation.

 Then there was James Madison's home, Montpelier, a new experience for me.  At the time his family built the home it was in the wilderness.  The front view faced the Blue  Ridge Mountains, beyond that was unexplored wilderness.  Today the highway cuts through the mountains to West Virginia. A surprise to me was what a colorful character  was James Madison's wife, Dolly.  She was known as a great hostess who didn't blink if she had a hundred guests for dinner.  She liked her drinks, smokes and she dipped snuff, but still a lady of her day.

James Monroe was probably one of our most effective Presidents but his accomplishments are understated. A visit to Ash Lawn reinforced the simplicity of his lifestyle.  I found it interesting that his alma mater, William and Mary, owns and manages his home.

The D-Day Memorial was a special place for several of the men who were World War II veterans...one person had been there on D --Day.  Another visitor remarked that it was the most impressive war memorial of all.  It is set on a hill overlooking the small town of Bedford where a large percentage of D -Day casualties were from.  We could see the Peaks of Otter on the Blue Ridge Parkway. It was bittersweet for me when I thought about my parents and grandparents who were no longer living. Oh, if I could have travelled just a short distance down the road and walked into my great grandparents home and felt their presence and smelled the aromas of Nannie's cooking.

We had lunch on a boat on Smith Mountain Lake. The sun glistened on the water as our guide told the history and purpose of the large man-made lake. I thought of my Aunt and her family who owned many acres of land, some now a part of the lake floor.

Onto the Booker T. Washington Museum and Memorial...a part of history some would rather forget.  He was an amazing man and the world is better for his contributions to it.  I knew a tidbit of history that won't be found in history books. I know who taught him to read--a brave and illegal thing to do.

What a tour.! I have left out the fun we had as a group, our lunch at Michie's Tavern and at Applebee's, and just chatting on the bus. It was a trip to remember forever. Thank you Naomi and John for your kindness and professionalism

And I'm still prejudice--about Virginia!

 

Sunday, October 7, 2012

SOMETIMES IT'S GOOD TO GO HOME

Thomas Wolfe wrote that you cannot go home again. We know that he was talking about emotionally, not physically. I went home a couple of weeks ago, almost.  I attended a Fall Festival and book signing in Pulaski, Virginia, the county seat of my home county.  If I had gone home it would have been about ten miles away in the little mountain village of Belspring. I would have been limited to looking at the small white Cape Cod with the red tin roof from afar.  My father retired in 1975 and he and my mother moved back to their "home" in Bedford County.  After a few years had passed, I asked her if she were sorry they left their home of over thirty years in Belpring.  She never gave me a direct answer but hinted that she only came because Dad wanted to build a retirement home on land he had "worked" as a young man. She knew you can't go home again.  My Dad seemed to be continually searching for the home he remembered through a boy's eyes.

If I had stood across the street and observed my childhood home, it would have looked different. The large Norway maple tree would be standing tall and majestic to the left of the front porch.  I would imagine bracing myself  in the yoke of the old tree.  I was hidden from the world and I could observe many goings on outside the near-by homes and the busy street that ran by my house and through the middle of the village. I has grown and had left home when my Dad knew the beautiful old tree had to go because of decay and disease in its trunk.  I felt as if an old friend had passed away. In its place now is a huge evergreen tree, taller than the house. It is not a "climbing tree." Such a pity if there are children in that home.  I have a feeling climbing trees is a lost art today in our world where there are so many rules to protect us from ourselves.

I take another look at the house and I notice the hedge in front has been replaced with a chain link fence.  Such a fence,  has no eye appeal, but is good to keep in small children and dogs.  It keeps out dogs and other children, as well. I'm certain that when my Dad was trimming the hedge on a hot summer day he longed for a fence.  But he never put one up.  Hedges seem more neighborly and the road trash is not as obvious. 

Other than the tree and the fence the house looks pretty much the same as it did when I left on the day of my marriage, December 8, 1957. The red tin roof and the painted columns.  I remembered my Dad taking a small brush and painting the mortar white.  My Mother said that he painted things that didn't need paint.  How many women would be glad to say that?

I wonder how the inside has changed over the years.   I 'm sure that it has in many ways. That is not important to me.  I know my parents are no longer there. The aromas from Mom's Southern cooking have long disappeared.  Just a hint of the scent of Dad's pipe tobacco would bring a flood of memories but it's not there.

So Thomas, you were right, "you cannot go home again." But the memories will never be erased.


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