I promised I would keep you informed of my progress in the treatment of RA as it involves chemotherapy. Well, chemo is chemo. Why did I think I could sail right through this with no extra bump in the road? But if it makes me feel better I am more than happy to spend one day whining and lounging around feeling guilty that I' m not being productive. Then A line in Father Merchant's opening prayer came to me (paraphrasing) "if I am called to do nothing, let me sit quietly." How difficult can be in this hectic world. For some off us a takes a dose of "chemo" to sit us down. Let's be more aware of our body's and soul's needs and sit quietly.
So far I have seen no changes in the symptoms of RA, but then I realize I am 29 years older than when I had treatment for breast cancer. It takes more time for everything. Right, my fellow seniors? I have realized that in most instances I can do almost everything but in a lower gear!
Continuing the gratitude challenge I want to say how thankful I am for my Memoir Writing Class. They raise my spirits and give me goose bumps with their wonderful writings. We are an eclectic group who spend two productive hours together every Wednesday morning. We travel the world, with different ethnic backgrounds, religions, life experiences, laughter and tears but we do it with respect and admiration for one another. It makes for a great week!
Thanks for reading my ramblings. Your comments are welcome.
Darlene
This blog exists to give tips on memoir writing and to post memories from the author's past. It is her hope that you may take away a tip for writing or a memory that brings a smile to your face.
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Monday, July 23, 2012
LIVE EACH DAY TO THE FULLEST
A TRIBUTE TO MY FRIEND, FLO ANN BENDER
Its happened again. Just this past Friday evening. Another friend has passed away. The memorial services are coming too fast and close together. I was bemoaning this to a friend and she reminded me of my age. Of course I hadn't forgotten I just celebrated my seventy-fourth birthday. Now that number does not seem old to me. Have you listened to Willard Scott on the Today Show call out the birthdays? Today we have a lady who is 106 and a man who is 108.We are definitely living longer.
My friend Flo Ann was a couple of years younger than I. She had gone through three bouts of breast cancer and the third time it metastasized into her vital organs.She was a strong lady, a woman of deep faith. She set an example for all of us to follow.
I first met Flo Ann at a book signing. We hit it off immediately. We had similar backgrounds..... both grew up in a rural area, she in Ohio and I in Virginia. Both had fought breast cancer, going through the unpleasant effects of chemo. We were in our senior years when our first book was published. And I could list more but the one thing that brought a closer relationship was her taking my Memoir Writing class. It was here that I learned what a special person she had been all her life. Her memoirs were from her heart, speaking of childhood experiences on the farm or stories about her family.
Shortly before I met her she was one of several co-authors of a book called, "Reflections From the Heart."This is a collection of poems, stories, and meditations of inspiration. She has several selections included in the book. One of my favorites is "The Best Gift."("Reflections From the Heart," by Cherri Bingham with co-authors, Book Stand Publishing, c2007) This is a letter to her daughter to be kept and read when she is an adult and has children of her own. It tells of a time when money was in short supply and she gave her daughter some clay to make a creche. In doing so her daughter revealed she understood the true meaning of Christmas. Another selection, "God is In Control," ends in this way--"You need to always have a goal. Dream it. plan it,and fulfill it. God will give you strength for whatever you are doing. He will be with you every step of the way. I am grateful for this life that he has given me. I have realized that God wants each of us to celebrate life everyday to the fullest.(pp116-117)
by many. And yes, you dreamed it, you planned it, and you fulfilled it. Rest in peace, my friend.Flo Ann, you will be missed
Darlene Eichler/July 23, 2012
Its happened again. Just this past Friday evening. Another friend has passed away. The memorial services are coming too fast and close together. I was bemoaning this to a friend and she reminded me of my age. Of course I hadn't forgotten I just celebrated my seventy-fourth birthday. Now that number does not seem old to me. Have you listened to Willard Scott on the Today Show call out the birthdays? Today we have a lady who is 106 and a man who is 108.We are definitely living longer.
My friend Flo Ann was a couple of years younger than I. She had gone through three bouts of breast cancer and the third time it metastasized into her vital organs.She was a strong lady, a woman of deep faith. She set an example for all of us to follow.
I first met Flo Ann at a book signing. We hit it off immediately. We had similar backgrounds..... both grew up in a rural area, she in Ohio and I in Virginia. Both had fought breast cancer, going through the unpleasant effects of chemo. We were in our senior years when our first book was published. And I could list more but the one thing that brought a closer relationship was her taking my Memoir Writing class. It was here that I learned what a special person she had been all her life. Her memoirs were from her heart, speaking of childhood experiences on the farm or stories about her family.
Shortly before I met her she was one of several co-authors of a book called, "Reflections From the Heart."This is a collection of poems, stories, and meditations of inspiration. She has several selections included in the book. One of my favorites is "The Best Gift."("Reflections From the Heart," by Cherri Bingham with co-authors, Book Stand Publishing, c2007) This is a letter to her daughter to be kept and read when she is an adult and has children of her own. It tells of a time when money was in short supply and she gave her daughter some clay to make a creche. In doing so her daughter revealed she understood the true meaning of Christmas. Another selection, "God is In Control," ends in this way--"You need to always have a goal. Dream it. plan it,and fulfill it. God will give you strength for whatever you are doing. He will be with you every step of the way. I am grateful for this life that he has given me. I have realized that God wants each of us to celebrate life everyday to the fullest.(pp116-117)
by many. And yes, you dreamed it, you planned it, and you fulfilled it. Rest in peace, my friend.Flo Ann, you will be missed
Darlene Eichler/July 23, 2012
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